Saturday, May 31, 2014

Short and Sweet

I'm stealing the title of this post from one of my favorite cuckolding blogs, Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse.   I left a comment to that post indicating that Em's cuckold scott is not unlike many other submissives who "think it's about them" most of the time.  We all know it isn't, but they can't help themselves I suppose.  Over time as a lifestyle D/s relationship matures, I think it becomes less and less about them and they have a hard time dealing with it.

scott response to my comment in part, included the following:

"I think you’ve profiled both me and the situation correctly. I know it’s not about me and less and less so as time marches on...I realize that in the fucking department, I don’t have anything to offer my wife. I’m lucky she cares enough to show me the attention she does."
Clearly scott gets it.  His response is one of the most profound, appreciative and insightful pieces of writing I've ever seen from a cuckold describing a part of his relationship with his wife.  My own cuckold paula has made significant progress in accepting, adapting and appreciating her role, but she's got a ways to go. she could learn a lot from scott.

The title of scott's post, "Short and Sweet" and the response where he admits he has nothing to offer in the fucking department reminded me of an incident in our own relationship that took place after the first chastity belt we ordered for paula came in the mail.

We did it because both I and a lover I had at the time thought it would be appropriate to keep her in chastity.  So when it arrived, I held off having her put it on until my lover Mike was present.  I thought having her put it on in front of him  would be cute.

Chastity belts aren't always easy to put on I guess and this one was not different.  paula struggled with it at first but finally we (Mike and me) were able to snap the lock on and enjoy the "view."

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paula began to turn red with shame and embarrassment.  Mike started laughing and I couldn't help myself either.  When Mike finally stopped laughing he blurted out "I think you bought the wrong size!"  I almost peed in my pants laughing!

There, encased in the plastic tube of the chastity belt that holds the penis, was paula's little clitty filling less than half the tube!  Finally I asked paula what size she ordered.

"i bought the smallest size they had" she answered sheepishly.  There was more laughter.

In the spirit of cuckold humiliation, I couldn't help myself and decided to undo Mike's Docker's and take out his thick 8 or 9 inch cock.  "Should we see if this fits?" I asked sarcastically.

paula was close to tears when I told her not to worry about it.  "Mike's cock might be big and nasty, but yours is short and sweet!"

Like scott, in the fucking department, paula doesn't have anything to offer.  Thankfully because of our lifestyle, I'm certainly not lacking anything.

Thursday, May 29, 2014

A Cuckold or Not?

In yesterday's post I wrote the following:

"Most Mandingo parties don't have cuckold themes or husbands who are openly submissive to their wives."

My lover Vince read it and when we talked last night let me know that he disagreed with most of that statement.  Vince has more experience than I do with Mandingo parties and with the interracial scene in general, so his thoughts on the matter were probably worth listening to.

First, the point I was trying to make (and didn't do a very good job of apparently) was that at these parties, the majority of the white husbands who come along with their wives aren't openly submissive to them.   And aside from having sex with the black men in attendance, their wives usually don't demonstrate any overt signs of dominance or other types of D/s play.  Some of the men simply enjoy watching.  However, I can't speak for what goes on after they've left the party or if they have their own little kinks when alone together.

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Vince's viewpoint is that all of these men demonstrate a rather high degree of submission simply by attending the parties and allowing their wives to be taken by the black men of their choice.  The husbands aren't allowed to participate unless called upon by the wife or the bull and if they do, it's only in a fluffing capacity. 

Vince also believes that from his experience, these husbands aren't allowed the same freedoms as their wives (i.e. having sex with other women while the wives watch) and by definition, that makes them cuckolds whether they like it or not.   He also mentioned that bedding a white wife with her husband present makes him and his other black friends feel superior to the husbands in attendance, knowing they have little if any say in the matter.

At some point this all becomes semantics but I tend to agree with Vince.  Next time, I'll do a better job of explaining things.

It would be much simpler if they all showed up in maids uniforms like my sissy wife paula now wouldn't it?

Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Mandingo Party - Sights and Sounds

Saturday night's Mandingo party was the first I'd attended in a very long time.  It was nice to see some old friends and actually meet a few new ones.  The three of us (myself, Vince and my sissy cuckold paula) arrived together and as soon as we got to the hosts house paula was sent to one of the bedrooms to change into her maids uniform. 

We were one of the first to arrive so we got a chance to meet the hosts who up to this point we had only spoken to on the phone.  I wanted to make sure once again that they were okay with my bringing paula along to serve as a sissy maid in various capacities.  Most Mandingo parties don't have cuckold themes or husbands who are openly submissive to their wives.  But by the same token, the one's I've attended are open to this type of play and view it as a fun and interesting diversion.  I was happy to learn that there would be at least three other cuckold couples in attendance that night, including our friends Nancy and her sissy baby hubby tiffany.  We knew they'd be in attendance so having two other couples there with cuckolds piqued both mine and Vince's interest.

paula looked real cute when she came out and I immediately told her she was to take orders from our hosts for the rest of the evening.  Whatever they needed her for she would be available to make all the guests feel at home.  This included serving drinks, snacks, doing dishes, keeping the place clean and even making sure the bedrooms were tidied up between any sessions the black bulls were having with the wives.  Johnny, one of the hosts, told paula that she'd be kept busy and would probably get some help from the other cuckolds when they arrived.

All in all it was a great evening.  I even got to play with Nancy while we were with Vince and another beautiful black man named Jackson.  Vince and Jackson enjoyed watching Nancy and me do a little 69 (among other things) before they took the two of us.  Neither paula or tiffany were around to watch.  Both were serving and doing domestic stuff; paula in the maids uniform and tiffany fully diapered and in a cute pink bonnet!

Nancy and I were also happy to meet another Domme type wife named Helen.  She was from Chicago, new to the area and had been into the interracial scene there for about 5 years.  Her husband Bill wasn't a sissy type, but that didn't make her any less dominant than myself or Nancy!  Helen was big into objectification and had hubby Bill serve as a footstool for whoever wanted to use him that way. 

Later in the evening, when I returned from another nice session with Hal, I noticed Bill standing in the corner of the room with a lampshade over his head, Helen sitting nearby and talking with a fewother people.  As soon as she would poke fun at Bill by referring to some of the things she'd done with him, the poor guy would develop an erection and everyone would get a laugh out of it.  It was quite a sight.

I also love the sounds of a Mandingo party.  When you walk down the halls where the bedrooms are, you can hear the moans coming from the wives, some slaps here and there, and the grunts of the aggressive black bulls enjoying themselves.  I for one can be pretty vocal, and it was nice to hear evidence that there were some women louder than me. 

paula admits that these sounds turn her on, especially when she hears them coming from me.  That's one reason why whenever she's at a Mandingo party, her chastity belt is on.  No need for her to get any strange ideas :)

Saturday, May 24, 2014

Cuckolds, Maids and Bulls

Things are going to slowly return to normal around here.  We've been taking care of a close relative who's now fully recovered and ready to return to our "regular" lifestyle.

My "wife" paula's has been a great help throughout it all.  The domestic skills she's honed since we've been married were a big plus during this time.  Even though I'm very indebted to her for what she's done, it doesn't lessen my dominance over her or my demanding attitude.

Our part-time maid peter is one sexy little submissive stud.  I don't know how else to describe him.  He's such a cute toy to have around too.  He makes paula jealous and makes me very happy.  paula's is now sort of being cuckolded not just by a Black Bull (Vince), but by another submissive! 

And finally, my lover Vince has never let me stay down for too long.  He's provided emotional support and sex whenever I've wanted it!

So expect more posts here soon.  There's even a Mandingo party tonight to celebrate the Memorial Day weekend.  Vince is taking me and allowing me to enjoy other beautiful black men and he'll also be available to help satisfy other white wives with sexually inferior cuckold hubbies :)

Ms. Carol

Sunday, January 19, 2014

Apologies

I want to apologize for the "disappearing act" that took place here.  I kept putting off posting something to explain what was going on.

A close family member of mine took sick and is staying with us.  Obviously, that's put a big cramp in our lifestyle.

Sometimes in life you have to do these things.  It's going to be a long recovery process and they're going to need my support for a few more months.

We've been coping and making adjustments as needed.  Life's all about priorities isn't it.

We hope to post a bit more regularly.

Thanks.

Ms. Carol

Monday, November 11, 2013

Diaper Punishment for paula

I had to punish paula yesterday.  I know both she and Vince were happy to see me but paula couldn't control herself and came in her panties without permission.  Part of it was my fault.  Big mistake to let her out of her chastity belt to watch me and Vince.  I even told her she could rub her panties but gave her specific instructions not to cum. 

I guess I set her up to fail, but disobedience has to be dealt with.  paula spent the rest of the day in diapers in front of a special guest that Vince had invited over.  Someone he thought I might want to see soon after I got back from being away for a few weeks.  Vince arranged for our new part time sissy maid peter to visit us.  I was quite surprised and happy to see peter.

paula was standing in the corner, sucking on her binkie and in diapers when peter arrived.  It was the first time peter saw paula in such a state and it wasn't anything I had planned.  It left me explaining to peter that this was one of the ways I disciplined paula and I also told him the reason why she was being disciplined. 

peter was dressed in his male attire when he arrived, except for the pair of white panties he wore under his jeans.  I asked him if he would like to change into something more comfortable and he hesitantly said yes.  I could tell he really wanted to but was a little nervous. 

After changing into one of the maids uniforms he wore to do housework for us, I suggested we just relax and talk for awhile.  It was really the first time we had a chance to talk openly with Vince there and eventually I was able to bring up the subject of what we might want to try sexually with peter.  He's a very attractive young man and makes a very cute submissive.  I told him so and it seemed to relax him and make him a little self conscious at the same time.

When our little conversation was over, I took peter by the hand and led him to our bedroom where under my tutelage, he did a very commendable job of worshiping my pussy.  He was so attentive and it felt real nice.  I treated him to an orgasm of his own, slowly milking him through his white panties, which he ended up wetting. 

I teased peter about having to put him in diapers because he too made a mess.  I chose not to because as I told him "one baby in the house is enough."  Instead, I told him to remove his panties and gave him a pair of paula's to wear. 

We went back downstairs where I put peter's soiled panties over paula's head.  I think it shocked peter that I would do such a thing.  I also told paula that she was to hand wash peter's panties along with mine and hers. 

All in all it was a very nice afternoon.  peter is going to work out just fine. 

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Back From the Missing

I'm back after a month's absence.  I love Sex, BBC, Dominating my sub sissy and also enjoy blogging about it.  But sometimes, those first three things and life's issues take precedence over the blogging.

I'm fine, the cuckold's fine, Vince is still awesome and even my new part-time sissy maid peter seems to have worked out well in my absence. 

I've got lots of catching up to do (sexual and otherwise) but look for me here soon. 

I have to get the cuckold back on her creampie diet, and Vince is all to eager to oblige!